Sorry mom, this won’t be as bad as title implys. But as my daughter would say – “the struggle is real.” I have special anxiety and possible ocd issues reserved especially for trips involving planes. Which is a huge improvement over not flying at all. I have gotten better over the years and in my more mature mode of thinking – I can fly without the use of sedatives or hand holding. But I do need various comfort devices – such as cleaning wipes, nasal spray, candy, a good distracting book and headphones. This is because inevitably I will wear a shirt with sparkles and therefore get the title inspiring search. In Indy- they are very hospitable about it and I totally kept my “at least buy me dinner first” comment to myself. Because I’m mature like that. I did need more comfort though and my stopover in Chicago required a stop at Garrett Popcorn shop. As they tucked napkins and wet wipes (God bless them) into my bag, I could not agree more with the phrase on the napkin. Love is messy. Well said Garrett.